The Official Verbal Abuse Information Site

Featuring the works of internationally recognized Interpersonal Communications Specialist and Author, Patricia Evans. Features five incredibly helpful books to help educate you and rebuild your life.

The Verbally Abusive Relationship, shows that verbal abuse is a lot more than name-calling and that there are a dozen main categories of verbal abuse, from the silent treatment and discounting, to threatening and name-calling.

Verbal Abuse Survivors Speak Out, explains other forms of control, addresses coping and suggest that readers be sure that any therapist they go to is aware of the dynamics of verbally abusive relationships.

Controlling People, lays out what goes on in the mind of the person who uses verbal abuse to control someone, or some group. There is nothing else like it. Dr. David L. Quinby, Professor, Emeritus, Dept. of Psychology, Youngstown State University says, “Human kind urgently needs this, both on an individual and a collective level. Nothing else seems to be working very effectively.”

The Verbally Abusive Man – Can He Change? Some people respond to verbal abuse, such as: “You’re too sensitive”, with a comment like “You’re being a jerk.” They don’t know how to respond in a non abusive way. This book helps to sort it all out and is ideal for partners of people who indulge in verbal abuse, and likewise is ideal for people who want to stop being verbally abusive.

Victory Over Verbal Abuse: A Healing Guide to Renewing Your Spirit and Reclaiming Your Life. This book will empower you to create the life you want, far from senseless accusations, wounding words, and confusing comments. There is an affirmation and message for every week of the year.


Annette Oltman’s The MEND Project

Get the answer to the question: “Am I Being Abused, or Am I Crazy? How Do I Know?” This checklist will help you determine if you are being abused and confirm that you are NOT crazy!